Day 61 Sacraments

A short night of sleep again
But managed to walk and start the day's journey.
Fatigue is still imminent.
Prayer and time are my sacrament.
Quiet solitude is my only hope.
When the way is hard it helps me cope.
Even in the midst of struggle
My body tries to resist and wriggle.
But my mind and spirit choose better
The memories of God's love letter,
"faith, hope and love abide"
And in that message I will forever hide.

Day 60 and still in the Sacred Sanctuary

When time affords it,
Alone,
I always want to go somewhere quiet
To read, journal, reflect and sip coffee,
But truth is I already have some of the best places
Right here in this private sanctuary called home.

An ever so gentle breeze ruffles my caladium leaves.
The red and pink begonias sway to a silent rhythm called life.
A quail chants "Bob White."
Other birds sing simple harmonies.
Dogs whimper in competing cadence
and my heart, soul and spirit
all exist in perfect tempo.

Here is another collage of Dad with prismacolor, highlighters and digital image.

He continues to grow stronger. He continues to ask about home. He is getting the peg (feeding tube) out soon. He is eating 3 meals a day. He is walking stronger. He still has difficulty getting to the standing position. He still needs your prayers as do Mom and I.

private sanctuary

Sitting in my private sanctuary
I feel safe and protected.
For a few brief moments
I shut out this world.
Its pain, suffering, and fears
Are not visible from this vantage point.
It's cold hard truth is non-existent.
Its cruel realities are forgotten.
I know I must leave this safe haven
And go about my daily tasks.
I wish I could stay in this sacred place forever.
That must be what heaven is like-
A safe, protected and sacred sanctuary.

Day 58 there's much to realize

(from day 44)

Today I relinquish all control

to God's perfect will.

Seeking only the calm

God can provide will

keep my spirit steady.

Acquiring a deeper hope

will revive my soul.

Knowing the

"peace that passes all understanding"

will be my mantra.

the way out

Unyielding walls

Unwieldy floors

I stumble along.

Trapped by bars

I created myself.

Unbreakable windows and

Locked doors,

The only way out is

Through the spirit

Of God's good graces.

Day 57 and becoming wordless

Wordless thoughts clutter my mind.

Angst and pain spill from my mouth.

Answers do not come easily even to questions asked too many times.

Fatigued body melts into many aches and pains.

Even more tired is the soul trying to keep pace.

Losing spirit of cheerleading.

God's love and mercies keep me going despite all the negatives.

Day 56-the fighter

Even though he asks about going home, he is patient and trusting. Decisions have been made for his recovery and healing without his consent and now that he could make some of those decisions, he knows the professionals and his family has his best in mind. If only I had his patience and faith. I still am learning so much from him!

Day 55 continued....through the eyes of....

Everyone who knows a person who had a stroke sees it differently. Doctors see a case. A name. A person who suffered great loss and must face the possibility of not recovering, a family that must face facts. Nurses sometimes see the same thing but often with more compassion. They see the family daily and know that they have fears and hopes and their own confusion caused by an unexpected illness. I see Dad's stroke as a horrible injustice to a God-fearing, faithful, servant of God, husband, and father. I see a fearful of loss situation causing many mixed emotions, pain and fatigue. Will he fully recover to be home with Mom and live a somewhat normal though cautious life for more years to come? Through Mom's eyes it's a scary "What if I lose him?" event and the "Why him? Why me?" thoughts. A woman of age and dementia who still does not fully realize the complete cost of such an occurrence to the body of a man who was always her strength and protector. But DAD! How must it look through his eyes, experiencing it, feeling it, being confused by it? Does he know what happened? Does he know how bad it was? Does he know how far he's come? Does he realize how much work is still ahead? Does he have enough fight left for the remainder of his journey? Do any of us?

Through God's eyes, He sees a man of quiet strength who can truly grow stronger in his faith, closer to his maker and inspire others who observe the journey.

Diversions can be relaxing! Balance!

Doing an online workshop on Vision Journaling over at http://collagediva.typepad.com/

It's still not too late to sign up. The first lesson is in relaxation. Trying to relax is never easy for me and especially now while my Dad is in Day 55 recovering from a stroke. I have been writing and art journaling the whole process on my blog here; so this workshop will hopefully further the recovery for me. One thing people don't tell you about strokes...the family is in recovery too! I've posted my first vision journal piece here in this post. This just may be what I need. First, we must realize we need relaxation and are not getting adequate amounts. Then we need a good kick in the pants to make it happen. Thanks Kathryn!

(The face and picture of Kiawah sunrise are mine. Stamped words are mine. Using a watercolor bound book for these prompts. Paints are acrylic and watercolor and distress ink.)

Day 55 Needs

The body tells us what we need.

We must listen.

The consequences or results are huge.

This is not news but sometimes advice we forget.

If tired-rest your body.

If sick-treat the cause.

If worried-pray to your Heavenly Father.

If lonely-talk to someone.

If hungry-eat something healthy.

If lost-search the scriptures for peace.

If hurting-have a good cry.

If forgotten-find Christ.

If speechless-listen to the Holy Spirit.

If deaf-listen with your heart.

If noisy-quieten your soul.

If happy-share it!

The list could go on and on...but you certainly get the message.

Day 54 and seeing the light

Finally, seeing some light at the end of this long tunnel I've been traveling.

Now if only I can find some rest for this weary body.

Life is not only not always easy but it is sometimes dark and mysterious.

The only way we find the answers or joys is to stay in its light.

God is that light.

His way is well lit.

We are the ones who step off the path and find the darkness.

His light is not always easily seen but if we follow His way and word....

The light is obvious!

Day 53 and no longer Silent Desperation

James Taylor sang it best! "Moving in silent desperation."

But the desperation is lessening. He is improving. Life is improving. We will make it!

God is still in charge and making good miracles for us!

Dad is walking stronger but still assisted.

He is having real meals!

He is communicating better!

Incontinence is improving!

Praise be to God!

His mercies are never failing and His love is amazing.

Trust Him! Follow Him! Share Him!

God is good! All the time!

All the time! God is good!

Day 52 fog and sun feelings

The fog settles above the grassy field

much like dread clings to one's heart.

A feeling of despair and fear can

weigh a body down.

Fatigue and constant thought makes

one feel like lost hope most days.

But a golden sun breaks through

the gray clouded sky and hope returns.

Peace is restored and with it

a feeling of resolve.

Your heart knows "I can make it another day."

When times are hard

lean on God.

When times are easy

lean on God.

When situations cause pain

trust God's healing.

When situations are peaceful

trust God's love.

When prayers seem useless

pray harder.

When prayers are answered

pray with gratitude.

When hope is all you've got

realize it's enough.

When miracles occur

shout praises to God.

Day 51 (through ROSE COLORED GLASSES

Always the Pollyanna, I believe rose colored glasses can lessen the pains and troubles of life. Try it! When problems come and dthey will, simply put on the tinted shades and move through the difficulty with creative strides and positive faith in the outcome...see if it doesn''t seem a bit easier to tolerate. See if you don't see things more clearly.

Journey down the road called life...

Ignore the sadness and troubles.

Celebrate the joys and blessings.

Follow a path to grace.

Fill up on life's goodness.

Share its beautiful directions.

Express gratitude to a higher Power (GOD).

Realize your dreams and believe in their magic.

Day 50

He sits silentley

hands clasped

eyes shut

quiet strength

He speaks softly

words falter

mouth twitches

simple trust

He stand cautiously

feet unsure

weight unbalanced

unfailing will-power

He is recovering though difficult and much to go; he is recovering!

Day 49 and Dad's Journey continues....

Day 49 Sensible Lessons

From the physical walk to the spiritual one, today began with true lessons from above. Prayers were simple,"Help those I hold dear to be touched, healed, uplifted and peaceful this day. Amen"

Poem (below) came while walking before devotions....usually I work the other way. Scripture from Upper Room for today from Ephesians 3:14-21 had so many answers to all the questions that have filled my mind and soul recently. "Kneel...strength...power...faith...love...surpasses knowledge...fullness of God...able to do unimmeasurablly more than all we ask or imagine...Amen!"

Fearful of lazy Sundays because of the morning Dad had his stroke. Must let that go as I have so often prescribed to Mom to let go of the image of Dad slumped in the bathroom floor....today true healing and letting go comes. Maybe it's the letting go of negative images, thoughts and memories that can lead to true healing alone. Often those who do not believe in God talk of sending good thoughts and energy into the universe....well, those are prayers, no matter what anyone calls them. AND just maybe they are the very thoughts and energies that come back from the all powerful physician...GOD...in the form of healing, answers and new found faith.

I see God's answers in

a perfect morning sky.

I taste God's answers in

fresh fruit from the vine.

I smell God's answers in

a magnificent magnolia blossom.

I hear God's answers in

the voice of a dear soul.

I feel God's answers in

my peaceful heart.

It is time to stop questioning and accept God's answers. Thanking Him for all the wonderful healing that has already occurred and never looking back again...only forward!

Day 49 He's still the same man inside!

and rapidly becoming the same man outside....

Day 48 Memories past

My Dad made this wagon for Matthew (my son who is now 24) when he was still working in the textile mill. He always said it was the one he wanted as a child.